I met this guy a few years back on the internet. When we met physically, I didn’t like what I saw. He was really nice and romantic on phone, but he didn’t even fit in any way into my definition of 'good looking'. He looked wild and strange. I tried my best accepting it, but it was really difficult. I could not place the face with the name. After a while I discovered I lost my affection for him. He on the other part really liked me. He wanted to date me and was willing to change but it was difficult for me. I later changed my location and moved on to another city when I had the opportunity.
A year after dat, I met this other wonderful guy on the on the internet too. He was simply sweet, loving faithful and very romantic. But the same problem I had earlier happened...i didnt like what i saw when i saw him. He was so not handsome. He was too tall, too dark and old...
The funny thing is I have been meeting guys that i really liked. I gave them all the love and care and they don’t show me as much love as I give out. Presently there's dis guy I am so in love with. We’ve been friends for 3 yrs now and we really like each other. We are very close and he's my best friend.
The problem is we've both talked about dating, and he said he doesn’t think he's in love with me. He said he really likes me but he doesn’t see us dating. It hurts because he keeps dating other girls, sharing his experiences with me, and asking him for advice. I give him all the advice he needs because I like him and I want the best for him. Most dates he's tried out did not work out because somehow he doesn’t get what he really wants...
I have thought about it over and over, and I have decided I am going to let him go and accept other people for who they really are. Here's my conclusion
: Don’t judge a book by its cover. Discover people and accept them for who they really are.
Don’t give your love to someone who doesn’t love you.
